A HUSBAND MOWS the lawn..comes inside, grabs a soda, sits down & relaxes for a moment & the wife comes along & says, "there you, sitting down again, doing nothing" ha ha.. or a wife plans a nice meal..goes shopping...prepares the table..cleans & cooks everything, & the husband sits down to eat & sees the wife sitting down for a moment while waiting for the roast to finish cooking & says "You lazy woman, why don't you sweep the floor while your waiting for the roast ? "
That's what I mean by dysfunctional...more like a game of gotcha, but not congruent with the truth..or the secretary goes into the lunchroom & says to the teachers on their lunch break, "THERE ya'll are, sitting on your lazy butts again" ...ha..again, NOT congruent with the whole picture...COPS prey on this phenomenon as well..randomly "catching" us making an "illegal u-turn" or not wearing our seatbelt & treating us as if were 100% BAD rather than 99% GOOD.
